the birth of baby oakley

When Jennifer e-mailed me last fall with the news that she was expecting, my emotions jumped from happy to sad to excited all within a few seconds of each other. I was happy, obviously, because one of my favorite past brides was pregnant with her first baby and was inviting me to be there to capture the delivery. In the same instant I was sad knowing she was due just a few short weeks after my own due date, and I would be smack dab in the middle of my maternity leave. And then as soon as I had the thought, it passed and my sadness turned to excitement realizing that one of the perks of being your own boss is deciding what you can and can’t do during your own leave of absence. If ever there was a time to make an exception, this was it!

And so on the second Saturday in April, just a few weeks before the first anniversary of their wedding, I found myself standing in a hospital room with Jennifer and Kyle as they welcomed their daughter into the world. When I first met Jenn during the planning stages of her wedding, I was struck by how perfectly she fit the role of a bride-to-be. She talked about her plans with such excitement and grace, and I knew she was going to be a beautiful bride. As I watched her spend her first moments with her daughter, I couldn’t help but think back to that time and realize that her perfect role was not that of a bride — it was as a mother.

I could not be happier for Jennifer and Kyle and their families. Jennifer is more than just a former bride to me. She is a friend. And I can’t say how much it means to have been welcomed in and trusted with capturing two of the most important days of her life. Love you girl!

 

The Birth of Oakley Turner from Amanda Pair on Vimeo.

 

 

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Maggie - I love when you post a birth story. Wonderful images of a beautiful family and how sweet that Jennifer started out as a bride. You are the best in the businesses!May 14, 2013 – 1:19 pm

Melissa - I can’t help but tear up during these sweet memories of people I don’t even know. Your talent is such a blessing and those images are so precious. Congrats Tom mom and dad!May 14, 2013 – 8:52 am

Jennrob - How sweet! What a beautiful family and I too love that one of his hand in her hair. This tugs at my heart thinking of how much they change in just a short period of time. Congrats to them and good job on the pictures!May 14, 2013 – 7:22 am

Julie - Their story is much like ours in that Victoria was born 3 weeks after our first anniversary. We’re so happy it turned out that way! Great priceless photos Amanda, as always :) Love the one of his hand in her hair.May 14, 2013 – 4:15 am

our family | a lifestyle session

As most of you know, I have been on maternity leave since the birth of our second baby. The time away from work has been a bit of a transition for me considering that I spent the last four or five years knee deep in shooting and editing and blogging and running my small business. Although I took some time off after Ava was born, I knew this time around had to be different. So when I finished my last 2012 wedding in December, I jumped head first into an extended maternity leave. These days you are more likely to find me taking photos of my own children in our everyday lives (though I am starting to ease back into client projects!), but as for now there is nothing else I’d rather be doing!

Although we had newborn photos made of Anna, a true lifestyle session is what I really wanted this time around. My friend Heather Knowles came over few weekends ago to photograph our family. I wanted the session to be laid back and truly capture what we would be doing on any given Saturday. While I do think there is a place for beautiful posed family “portraits”, I could not be happier with this glimpse into our everyday lives. I have included a lot of photos here, but I loved so many. And since I haven’t been blogging client sessions, I wanted to share with you where we have been and what we have been doing these last few months.


 

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Chevin Woodruff - LIFE is right. The love is gliding smoothly through these beautiful Life Style family photos. Thank you for sharing.May 6, 2013 – 9:55 am

Deb Wood - Beautiful, priceless photo! I love them all. Yea, Heather!May 2, 2013 – 5:00 pm

Ashley - Ahhhh! This pictures make me want to come see you guys! Both girls are beautiful! I want to squeeze Anna and those little leg rolls! Love y’all!April 29, 2013 – 5:38 am

Amy Creamer - Ya’ll are just one of the sweetest and most precious families I know. Anna & Ava are absolutely BEAUTIFUL! I really enjoy getting to see the pictures of your little family growing!April 28, 2013 – 8:19 pm

:) camille - what precious, priceless, beautiful memories. never doubt your choice, amanda. your joy is beautiful in every. single. image. miss you guys! :)April 28, 2013 – 9:38 am

DebZorn - Such a beautiful family. This is definitely my favorite type of photography. Thank you for sharing.April 27, 2013 – 3:29 pm

Allison - Awww SO cute! You have the most adorable family! :)April 26, 2013 – 6:24 pm

Amie Ezelle - So beautifully sweet :-)April 26, 2013 – 3:12 pm

Melissa - ohhhhh that black and white of you and Anna… be still my heart! I love all of them, but that might be my favorite.April 26, 2013 – 1:44 pm

Tina - Oh Amanda, you have SUCH a beautiful family! These are so gorgeous – I want to have sessions like this one day:)April 26, 2013 – 1:33 pm

Coe - Awe – you’re wearing Ava’s favorite color. Beautiful pictures; beautiful family! Great job Heather!!April 26, 2013 – 1:29 pm

the birth of baby anna

When Ava was born in 2011, Allen and I stepped skeptically into the decision to have her birth photographed. Although I had been part of the experience for others, I just wasn’t 100-percent sure that it was something I wanted for myself. But the photographs we have from her birth are some of my most treasured, and I have never once regretted our decision! Since that time I have photographed almost a dozen more births for friends and clients and have become passionate about preserving those first moments. When it came time to plan for our new baby’s arrival, I knew without a doubt that I wanted our photographer there with us again.

Anna’s birth story could be summed up in one word: QUICK. We went from zero to sixty in the blink of an eye, and she was in our arms just a short 15 minutes later. Time both flew and stood still for me, but in the whirlwind of delivery I feel like I missed so much of what was going on. In the days and weeks (and now months!) since Anna was born, the memories I do have of the day have begun to fade. Seeing them again through Wynter’s point of view brings the emotions flooding back. These images mean the world to us, and I am so happy to add them to our family album.


The Birth of Baby Anna from Wynter Pate on Vimeo.


A huge thank you once again to Wynter for sacrificing her time to be with our family. She has captured so many special times for us in the last few years, and we are forever grateful. Also, I have to give a special shout out to the wonderful nurses who took care of us while we were in the hospital. We were so fortunate to have many of the same nurses care for both of our girls, and having them included in our experience (and the slideshow!) holds a special place for me. We love you all!


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Melina - Always fun to start a Monday morning off crying. So special. Thank you for sharing!April 22, 2013 – 6:35 am

Byron - Amazing!!!April 21, 2013 – 9:08 pm

Amie Ezelle - Beautiful! Thanks for sharing!April 20, 2013 – 10:29 pm

Deb Wood - PS: The last photo of her swaddled in the crib reminds me of the photo you took of her for your portrait project. She was swaddled in her crib at home. Comparison photos some day?April 20, 2013 – 9:09 pm

Deb Wood - I am much more emotional watching this tonight than the first time some weeks ago. Maybe because I know sweet Anna so well and love her so much now. About 2:36 the photo is of her with her sad face. She still droops her little mouth and her bottom lip quivers when she is unhappy (before the crying begins). :) Winter did a great job again.April 20, 2013 – 9:02 pm

Tina - Tear!!! So precious, I think you’ve convinced me to do this one day – there are some absolutely amazing images in there that I’m sure you’ll treasure for years:) CONGRATS again!!!April 20, 2013 – 3:32 pm

Tereasa - Such a beautiful video !! Congratulations Amanda, Allen, (and Ava) on another special baby girl !April 20, 2013 – 2:36 pm

a portrait project | march 2013

Another month, another portrait project for me. Here we are three full months in and going strong. As time has passed and the project has continued, I find myself increasingly attached to the photographs in my “daily” folder. Each image is etched so clearly in my mind and has come to represent that day for me. It is getting harder and harder to narrow them down for these posts. But I suppose in terms of documenting our family life, that is a good thing…

03.02.2013 — A visit from She-She and cousin Maci.

03.09.2013 — My baby girl turned two today. We let her lead the day, taking her to all of her favorite places and ended the night with a surprise cupcake. She was a happy birthday girl.

03.10.2013 — I’m so happy to have a good shot of her eyes open, but this is her true happy place and what we see the most of. Love my itty bitty.

03.12.2013 — She is such an independent little girl and is happy to do her own thing. I love to walk by her room and peek in at what she is up to. It always makes me smile to see her thinking and talking aloud as she plays. These two shots were taken just a few minutes apart.

03.14.2013 — What is it with babies and swaddles? No matter how well I think I did, the little Houdini always manages to wiggle her way out…

03.15.2013 — I meant to get a picture of her coloring at the library today, but on a second look I was struck by those LASHES! She doesn’t get them from me, that’s for sure.

03.17.2013 — We took a trip to the fire station today to see Uncle Todd’s fire truck. She was in big truck heaven!

03.18.2013 — I still can’t get over how chubby this little one is getting. Love her!

03.21.2013 — Look Anna… there’s a baby in the mirror!

03.26.2013 — Play time with the little one.

03.27.2013 — This wasn’t the image I intended to use for this day, but (now looking again several days later) it struck me as *so* her — our little rock collector and backyard explorer.

03.31.2013 — No words…


 

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Louisa - These photos are so sweet! Seriously impressed you are keeping up your photo-a-day!April 5, 2013 – 2:43 pm

Deb Wood - Ava looks so grown-up in the 3/27 photo. It is my favorite because I know how much she loves being outside. The first photo of She-She and her girls is precious.April 5, 2013 – 1:14 pm

katie - Love these. Still so impressed you’ve kept it up. Hope you turn this into a book when it’s all done.April 5, 2013 – 8:55 am

Tina - I love this project, so glad you’ve kept it up! I love looking at the photos on facebook:)April 5, 2013 – 8:44 am

a portrait project | february 2013

When I started this project on January 1 of this year, I inevitably looked ahead to the birth of our second baby and wondered if I could do it. Could I possibly continue taking a photo each day while I was wrapped up in the responsibility of tending to a newborn baby? I was hesitant to start knowing that I could possibly stall out as soon as I got really into the swing of it. They say it takes 21 days to form a habit, so I banked on that and forged ahead. And guess what? I did it! Here we are, 72 days into 2013 (and 21 days with a newborn!) and I’m still going strong. Woohoo!

02.04.2013 — At the end of a long day, it is a nice break for us both for Ava to have some alone time with her favorite tv show (on DVR). She knows she can only watch while we “wait Daddy come home” (wait for Daddy to come home) and she looks forward to climbing in our bed each afternoon. I checked on her while cooking dinner tonight and caught this sweet little peek.

02.05.2013 — Mastering the spoon.

02.07.2013 — A new toy completely made her day today. She didn’t put it down all afternoon and asked to sleep with two of the pieces at bedtime. Her love of bulldozers cracks me up!

02.08.2013 — The sun came out this afternoon, so we spent a little time outside. The wind and the hood made it worse than usual, but I secretly love how her wild hair hangs down in front of her eyes when she plays.

02.09.2013 — Times of rest during this pregnancy have been few and far between. I took advantage of some down time while Allen and Ava napped today and spent a few quiet moments just me and the baby.

02.12.2013 — Ava has tried to hijack almost everything we have bought or set out for the baby. Her most favorite is the “big pillow” (changing pad), and I often find her laying on it in the nursery floor solving the problems of the world.

02.13.2013 — I asked Allen to help me choose a favorite photo from today, and we couldn’t decide on just one. So here’s an “after bath time snuggles” bonus image for today… That look kills me! :)

02.14.2013 — I took her to the bakery this morning for a special Valentines treat. The sugar must have gone straight to her veins because she was being so silly while we ate our cupcakes. I didn’t get that “cupcake” shot I was hoping for, but I love this one of her being her even more!

02.15.2013 — It was a quiet day at home hanging out and following Ava’s lead. She didn’t want to leave the crib after her nap, but requested that a few of her favorite toys join her. She was just as happy as she could be!

02.16.2013 — It was “Big Machine Day” at our local science center. Allen and I were so excited to get Ava up close and personal with her beloved “bull-doh-doh”. Her reaction did not disappoint! She LOVED it, and having her cousin Cade there made it even better.

02.18.2013 — It warmed up this afternoon, so we hit the park to see Ava’s first love “Park BEE!” I only wish you could see this in picture in motion. She was so funny rocking on the bee with her pony tail flapping in the wind.

02.19.2013 — I may regret posting this, but Allen said to do it, and I’m just trying to keep it real over here. I’ve tried really hard to be good this time around, but at this point the ice cream was totally worth it!

02.20.2013 — This photo was part of the sneak peek of birth photography that Wynter sent us. As the weeks have passed, my mind has continually come back to this one as a favorite. Peeking at the clock in the upper corner of the image, my best guess is that this was taken when she was right at an hour old and this was the first few moments we were able to spend just the two of us.

02.24.2013 — Snoozy Suzy.


 

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katie - So impressed that you’ve made it 72 days. Newborn and all. And I absolutely love seeing Ava grow into this precious little girl.
Can’t wait to see how much Anna changes with each photo you take.March 14, 2013 – 11:07 am

robin - These are all amazing – I love getting a glimpse into Ava’s day to day!March 14, 2013 – 8:19 am

Amy Creamer - These are all absolutely precious Amanda! I miss you and hope y’all are doing wonderful!!March 13, 2013 – 10:20 pm

Deb Wood - I love all these photos. Ice cream on the belly is so appropriate for the day before Anna was born!March 13, 2013 – 7:49 pm

Melissa - I gotta say, the ice cream belly and Ava on the bee are 2 of my favorites. But Oh sweet baby.. that last one makes me just squeeee!! I can’t wait to love on both of your girls again soon! Love you.March 13, 2013 – 11:13 am