christmas bokeh

For as far back as my memory goes, we would head out on December 13, the day after my brother’s birthday, and shop for a Christmas tree. A fake tree was not an option. We would choose the biggest, most beautiful evergreen and haul it home. We would carefully string together popcorn and Christmas-colored construction paper chains and fill each branch with our homemade decorations. It was a simple tree I’m sure, but the one thing I remember - the one thing that matters - is that it was always a beautiful tree. However, the significance of my story has to do with the one thing that our tree was missing. The one thing that I desperately wanted for our tree each year…

In 2002, my dad retired from the Birmingham Fire Department after 33 years of service. As he climbed the ranks from Rookie to Battalion Chief, he was privy to a lot of hardship and tragedy around the city that most of us never know exists. The things he learned as a firefighter and first responder often had a way of trickling over into our home. One of the lessons he repeatedly brought to us was to never, and I mean never, NEVER PUT LIGHTS ON A CHRISTMAS TREE. Every year we were reminded that although they were nice to look at, lights on a Christmas tree were a extreme fire hazard.

To prove the point, each New Years Eve after removing all of our decorations, we would gather in the backyard around our dry, parched tree. With the careful precision only a firefighter knows, my dad would touch a flame to the bottom branches. In approximately 4.3 seconds the ENTIRE tree would be engulfed in flames. If you have never watched one burn, you are missing out one of life’s true wonders. It is amazing. And it is also why we never put lights on a Christmas tree.  

christmas-tree-bokeh

I first heard the term “bokeh” (I pronounce it “bow-kuh”) when Miz Booshay wrote about it last year. She defined it as “the wonderful out-of-focus light and shapes and colors you find in the background of many photos taken with a digital camera.” Couldn’t have said it better myself! Finding the bokeh is my mission this Christmas. If you spot any Christmas bokeh in your images, blog it and leave a comment with a link to your site. I would love to see!

Christmas lights have come a long way since the late 80′s/early 90′s. I’m pretty sure they’re much safer than they used to be. And I think even my dad would agree that when used responsibly they can really add something special to your Christmastime photography!

Shelia - I remember when we started that tradition in Dec 1992. I was always so unhappy that I could not string lights from one end to another until your Dad showed me why. On New Year’s Eve,Doug would haul the dried tree out onto the driveway. All of your friends thought we had pagan rituals with our trees as we stood around it, hands held and your Dad thanked the tree for giving us such pleasure, then he would light it and the flames soared through the night air. It was certainly amazing. Takes me back many years with bitter sweet memories that you guys are not home to do it over and over again!December 17, 2009 – 4:26 pm

deb - Your story SO captured the feeling of watching those darn trees burn year after year. =) Truth is: everyone should be as cautious as your dad. And, I’ll bet he would be happy to demonstrate to any doubters. BTW, never heard of bokeh but I like it.December 9, 2009 – 4:20 pm

Melina - You’re so inspiring. I’m sitting down with my camera to give bokeh a try. By the way, the house looks so festive. I do love some hot chocolate by the fire gazing up at a Christmas tree…with lights, of course.December 9, 2009 – 2:07 pm

Kristen - Can I come over & enjoy the view from this spot? Sip hot chocolate & watch a Christmas movie… It looks so homey! Love the post, love Christmastime!December 9, 2009 – 9:48 am

Melissa - I love that you didn’t put a tree up til after Matt’s bday!
(which reminds me to try to remember to call him. though this is the 1st year he didn’t call me!)

I thought about waiting til after my birthday this year. I have always had Christmas/birthday gifts, cakes with red and green flowers,etc!

what a beautiful picture!December 9, 2009 – 9:34 am

Allen - Just unplug your lights when you go to bed or leave your house and your chance of a fire is greatly minimized- knock on wood!
Cool post!December 9, 2009 – 9:04 am

Ravyn Stadick - Okay, so I totally got a visual of a family in the back yard … Wide eyed children watching their Christmas tree go up in flames, haha. What a great blog … I could SEE the story. I have never had a real tree until last year. My husband insisted. I think I have that same fear of it catching on fire … Needless to say, we made it through Christmas WITH lights on the tree … No fire. Knock on wood!December 9, 2009 – 8:52 am

Coe - Gorgeous Amanda! What I love about this picture is knowing (hoping) you can take this picture and watch your family grow. See the 2 stockings in the background? I used to have only two; and loved them both. Now, I have SIX and the addition of each one means so much to me and is a symbol of each blessing God has given me…Canine and Human alike. Having a picture of the two stockings will be a gentle reminder of how great life is now and how much things can grow and change over the course of the years! What you capture is so beautiful!!!December 9, 2009 – 7:37 am

jennrob - How interesting. I did not know that about your family. I’m glad that you finally got your wish as an adult to have lights on your tree!December 9, 2009 – 6:14 am

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